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  • January 24th, 2026
  • I'm the guy who will check most of your boxes in Santa Barbara... I'm John (29yrs) here in Santa Barbara looking for a hot date. I don't expect anything more than a first date. More dates will come if we decide to continue. I work for the government and so let's go down your imaginary check list shall we?  Tall - Check Handsome - Check Good shape - Check...
  • Sweet Guy, Dirty Mind, Zero Pressure ๐Ÿ˜‡Santa Barbara๐Ÿ˜ˆ  Hi beautiful. At twenty-nine years old I maintain my fitness while being humorous and charming yet slightly  mischievous. When I look at you my eyes show weakness while my laughter makes your stomach ache  ๐Ÿ˜ View My Dating Profile and Pictures - My approach to romance includes p...
  • Fun Loving Couple in Santa Barbara Seeks Female for Threesomes... Swingers in Santa Barbara Seeks Female Hi, we are Jordan and Riley, a sort of a younger swinger couple in Santa Barbara looking to explore threesomes with the right girl who is open to sex with a man and a woman at the same time. We look forward to experimenting with some wild fantasies we have and...
  • I'm Danish... Eat ME! Been dating most of my life and nothing too serious, but now I'm ready to settle down with the right person. I'm looking for a woman who will complement me. Where I have weaknesses she will have strengths. She must be local in or near Santa Barbara, because I did a long distance relationship on...
  • I will always laugh at screaming goats... Santa Barbara Man Seeks FWB I’m George age 40 here in Santa Barbara and am a bit of a shut-in. I still like going out for drinks and having fun but I find more peace and have more fun just kicking back at home. I love the beach, movies, Disneyland, writing music and poetry, spontaneous trips,...
  • Santa Barbara's Sex Ninja Has Come to Your Rescue... Single Guy 4 FWB in Santa Barbara Hi I'm Carl, and maybe the part about being a ninja isn't quite true, but I do have a yellow belt in Karate or was it Judo? Anyhow, I'm living in Santa Barbara and am looking for something more long term with the right lady. Me, I'm a black male, 31 years old,...
  • Ranch owner and lonely ol' guy Male Ranch Owner Seeking Woman in Santa Barbara Ok, I ain't that old. Just turned 48. I am a ranch owner with 40 acres and am looking for a gal who is adventurous, outdoorsy, fit and healthy enough for horseback riding, hiking, biking and picnicking on the trails. Enjoy travel and new experiences? ...
  • Cuckhold Bull in Santa Barbara Available for Couples... Hello, I'm Ryan and live in Santa Barbara offering my unique service as a Cuckhold bull. I have the physical credentials and am attractive. I stand 6'0, good shape, 9"+ inches, thick and uncut, single, black hair, blue eyes and I am a very easy going guy.  Respect and attentiveness are my watc...
  • Tom, 42, wants single minded woman Hello ladies, I am Tom, age 42 in Santa Barbara. I have a good job, a new truck and I own my house. Life is pretty good and I'm ready to take the next step toward finding love. Could you be who I'm looking for? We'll never know unless you message me.  I am not looking for someone who is going ...
  • PeeWee's Looking for a BIG Adventure! Hi, I'm Herman, and me and my little friend are looking for some excitement in Santa Barbara tonight. If you are up for an adventure we are too! We aren't too picky, just hope you like Tequila and dancing. Please be motherly and kind. Can you come out and play?. If so click here to come out and...
  • Letโ€™s Flip the Scriptโ€”You Lead, Iโ€™ll Moan ๐Ÿ˜๐ŸŽ€Santa Barbara Hey there, lovely ladies of Santa Barbara, My name is Wells and I'm on the hunt for someone special to explore this beautiful town with. ๐Ÿ’ซSwap pics & contact info  I'm a thrill-seeker at heart, always on the lookout for my next adventure. Whether it's hitting the slopes together or ...
  • Hey ladies, I am Roger, 49 and looking for real love Man Seeking Woman for Dating in Santa Barbara Hi, my name is Roger. I'm here seeking a woman for dating and friendship - hopefully a lot more! I am 49, a professional with no kids and no personal entanglements. I am local to this area and have lived here for 22 years. I would love to meet a kind a ...
  • January 23rd, 2026
  • Iโ€™m willing to lie about how we meet... I am a 32yr old half Hawaiian, Samoan, and half German. Born and raised right here in Santa Barbara. I'm 5'11" 190 pounds and have brown hair and hazel eyes. I’m a Disney obsessed, official Netflix movie rater. I’m also a cereal connoisseur and to top it all off I'm an 80’s pop mus...
  • Exotic and Erotic Orlando From Tuscany Italy... For More Than Just a Hookup Ladies I am Orlando visiting in Santa Barbara. Let me take you on an erotic journey of passion and delight tonight. I know how to treat a woman and bring out the sensual romantic in you. Just let yourself go and forget all about your cares for the evening. You will be in...
  • ๐ŸŒŸ Handsome JOHN Seeking a Spark ๐ŸŒŸ LET'S PLAY SOME Hello there, lovely ladies of Santa Barbara! My name is Johann and I am on the lookout for that special someone who can ignite a fire in my heart. ๐Ÿ’–Swap pics & contact info I have a passion for exploring the great outdoors, whether it's hiking through the mountains or relaxing by the lak...
  • I'm a Steamroller Baby! Hi ladies, James here nice to meet you! Let's hop on my bike, put our knees to the breeze and do whatever the hell we please! I'm good with my hands, still a bit of an outlaw at heart, 35 years old, lived here most of my life, blonde hair, blue eyes, 6'1, around 220 pounds, muscular, love women, hug...
  • Daniel 28, Plumber, recently new to area 28 y/o Man New to the Santa Barbara Area For Dating I am fairly a plumber by trade. I am looking for new people to meet in the Santa Barbara area and I would love to meet a nice lady I can talk to and listen to and maybe more. What do you enjoy doing? I like trying new things so don't be shy. I lik...
  • Shy 41 yr old guy Shy But Romantic in Santa Barbara Hey ladies, I am Bryan, 41 and I am a little shy when it comes to meeting women. I am romantic and thoughtful and looking for a kind hearted woman. They tell me I'm handsome. I'll let you be the judge of that. what I do know is that I like to have fun and I'd love ...
  • I wanna be your friend and lover Mature black man in Santa Barbara Howdy, my name is Samuel and I am a mature gentleman looking for a lady who is smart, funny and outgoing. I am 52, widower after 28 years, no kids. I am into riding my bike, the gym, and fishing on weekends. There is just one thing missing - maybe it's you! Do you ...
  • Nascar fan looking for lady to have fun with Nascar Fan for Lady in Santa Barbara If you are looking for someone legit, hit me up for a date. I am a down to earth guy who likes to chill on weekends and do fun stuff. I enjoy dining out, concerts, live theater, strolls at the park, hiking, movies, sports and much more. I hope you have a good se...
  • Click here - Add to Cart. Santa Barbara Single Dad for Fun That's my mom in the pic with me BTW. I'm Jonah here in Santa Barbara a single working dad age 31 with a three legged cat and hope to find a woman for some NSA fun who has a big purse to get lots of snacks into the movie theatres. I'm not afraid to talk about Bruno,...
  • Tall & Peggable ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ’‹ Looking for My Boss Babe Hi I am a Single 32 years old straight white male.I'm in Santa Barbara and I would love to meet and amazing woman who wants to feel a real man! ๐Ÿ˜‰ I love lots of foreplay, kissing , giving and receiving lots of orgasms. I am very oral i love to give as much as receive. I love to make her cum ...
  • exciting black guy waiting for you Exciting black guy in Santa Barbara I am Herman. I am an active and fit, age 32, black male and I am excited to meet you! Looking for lovely lady of any age but not too young to understand my humor and not too old to keep up ;) I am fit and fast to run with and muscular. Tall and attractive. Want t...
  • ๐Ÿ”ฅ Seeking my Queen of Hearts ๐Ÿ’– Hey there, lovely ladies of Cali! My name is Purcell and I'm on the hunt for that special someone who can capture my heart and keep me on my toes. You can find me in the dating profiles at Swap pics & contact info , so don't be shy to swipe right and say hello! ๐Ÿ˜‰ I'm a hopeless rom...
  • Nice Guy? Yep. Push-Over? Only When Youโ€™re Behind Me ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ’ฆ I'm a hopeless romantic at heart, always looking for ways to show my affection and make you feel like the queen that you are. ๐Ÿ’– I believe in chivalry and treating a lady right, so get ready for some old-fashioned charm mixed with a modern twist. Swap pics & contact infoSo if you're ready...
  • George, 31, long beard to tickle you with Bearded Man for Non-Bearded Lady in Santa Barbara Hey ladies, I am George and I am 31. I have been growing my beard for 3 years and it is nice and long. If you like bearded dude let me know and send me a private message @BeardedGeorge. I'm fun loving, athletic, Alpha type guy, comfortable in my ski...
  • I Need a Santa Barbara MILF Who's Got That Sexpertise! Santa Barbara Man Needs Experienced Woman Hi all you hot mommas out there in Santa Barbara. I'd love to meet someone to hookup with on a regular basis. FWB style. Young women my age seem to be sort of squirrely and awkward in bed. (just my experience) I picture a MILF as being more focused and educ...
  • Santa Barbara - Letโ€™s Make Some Mischiefโ€ฆ And Maybe a Mess ๐Ÿ˜‰  Hey gorgeous ๐Ÿ˜ I’m a 35-year-old guy from Santa Barbara with a cheeky smile, strong  hands, and an even stronger craving for adventure — both in and out of bed. My intention is  to meet a woman who possesses confidence because I seek someone to flirt with and share lau...
  • January 22nd, 2026
  • Dinner, Drinksโ€ฆ and You in the Driverโ€™s Seat? ๐Ÿท๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ‘ Santa Barbara Hey there, lovely ladies of Santa Barbara! My name is Baily and I'm on the lookout for that special someone to light up my world. ๐Ÿ’ซSwap pics & contact info I may not be a prince charming, but I can promise you plenty of laughs, good times, and maybe even a little bit of romance along the...
  • How do I look? / M4W in Santa Barbara Man for Woman in Santa Barbara Check out my profile and tell me how I look. I am Sam. I'm a model, age 32 and told I am darn hot looking. Hit me up and check out my profile @SamSanta Barbara. Send your pics for mine. I'm available evenings and weekends.  Sorry guys, no men or couples.&nb...
  • Flirty Fun, Endless Kisses & No Judgments ๐Ÿ’‹ Santa Barbara  The person I am today is a relaxed yet passionate man who balances his gentlemanly nature with  flirtatious tendencies by sending sweet messages during mornings and provocative messages at night. ๐Ÿ˜ˆ I enjoy tasty  food with slow kisses and unexpected plans that typically lead to in...
  • Nigel 56, Santa Barbara new here Male 56 seeks woman in Santa Barbara Howdy gals, I am Nigel and I am back on the market after a settlement with an ex and my subsequent relocation. lol. That's life. Now, to find my true one and only love. I am lighthearted and friendly and I love to laugh and be made to laugh. I've been single ove...
  • Sugar Magnet Looking for His Sugarbaby in Santa Barbara... Hi, I'm Matthew a semi-retired Real estate developer recently divorced seeking my sugarbaby for sexy good times and companionship. I have a yacht, penthouse and nice cars, but still something BIG is missing... YOU! I admit, I'm not the best looking guy, but you could do worse. Do you like to travel?...
  • Handsome, tall and tanned guy wants to meet shy woman Shy Guy for Shy Gal in Santa Barbara Male, 34 looking for gal, 26+ age. I'm a bit on the shy side so if you are also, that's a plus. I warm up once I start to feel comfortable. I have many interests and like new experiences. I want to meet a mature woman for fun, laughter and more. Check out my pro...
  • What songs make you dance? Are you the Stayin Alive type? the Twerker type? Currently looking for a Santa Barbara girl and I love a girl with rythm and groove who knows how to get down. I am not the shy type and some would say extroverted. I love a good time as much as anyone, but also enjoy chillin and bein with my boo. If t...
  • I will never ghost you! I’m Tommy age 37 and am sort of a home body. But, I still like going out for dinners, drinks, movies and having fun now and then. I live in Santa Barbara and my hobbies are: writing music and poetry, spontaneous trips, and playing my piano. I work in tech, so in this crazy world, let’s b...
  • ๐Ÿ”ฅ Passionate Dreamer Seeks Spark ๐Ÿ”ฅ Hey there, lovely ladies of Santa Barbara! My name is Hagan and I'm on the hunt for that special someone who can ignite my passions and keep me on my toes. You can find me in the dating profiles at Swap pics & contact info , so don't be shy to reach out and say hello ๐Ÿ˜‰ I'm a hopele...
  • Sweet Guy with a Naughty Side ๐Ÿ˜‡โžก๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ˆ Searching for My Queen Santa Barbara Hey there, lovely ladies of Santa Barbara! My name is Romeo and I'm on the hunt for my very own Juliet. Are you ready to be swept off your feet by a modern-day romantic? Look no further because I'm right here waiting for you. Swap pics & contact info Santa BarbaraI may not have a balcony to...
  • Sailing nut wants to meet lady sailor Male for Female Date Wanted in Santa Barbara Do you like going out on boats and sailing into the sunset? If you do, give me a call and we can check out the water together. My name is Lewis and I love the water. I do have lots of other interests including coffee shops, microbrews, dining out, music,...
  • Breast Obsessed Little Booby Boy... Need Mezmerizing Mammaries in Santa Barbara Controlled by Cleavage, nipples, areolas, breasts, boobies, tits, hypno, highly suggestible, kinks, fetishes all types. I'm Lenny a 5'9, about 160 pounds, 22 year old single male in Santa Barbara here for magic milk bag fantasies. If you have boobies I'm ...
  • Joker and a Smoker... I'm a 30 year old, 6'1, 200 pound hardcore biker living in Santa Barbara and I go by the handle of Joker. Looking for my sexy road queen who preferably smokes too, or at least doesn't mind that I do. All this anti-smoking shit brings out the rebel in me, and if you're like me then we'll get alo...
  • Super hot guy waiting for girl of my dreams Black Man for Romantic Woman in Santa Barbara Dark chocolate man with romantic nature. My name is Dwayne and am 6 feet 3 and well built. I am into sports and I love watching football. Life is good and all but I want to meet a beautiful woman for passion and adventure. Check out my profile @DwayneSe...
  • Widower seeking affection in Santa Barbara Santa Barbara Widower Seeking Affection Hello ladies, my name is Jonathan and I am seeking some female company for fun times and affectionate days. It has been a while and I have to face that I'm lonely. I am 52 and still look in my late thirties (I am told) and I am fit and healthy. I love riding ...
  • Chivalry Isnโ€™t Deadโ€”But I Might Be After One Good Ride ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‘ an looking for a hot woman to be my eye candy and trophy woman. Let me pamper you and take you out. I love lots of foreplay, kissing , giving and receiving lots of orgasms. I am very into oral and eating that kitty. I'm a damn good lover and know how to use my cock! I want us both to use each o...
  • Blue Eyed BDE... Some say I should be in porn, but I have a profession that doesn't mesh with that, (EMT) plus I wouldn't want my future kids to ever see it. Hi ladies I'm Chad, 31 years old, not too serious, blonde hair, blue eyes, 6'0, 190 pounds, size 11" real uncut thick burrito type, I'm very oral both giving a...
  • You want to date me, right? Man seeking Woman in Santa Barbara Hey, thanks for checking out my ad. I am Noel and I am here to let you know that you don't want to miss out on dating me. I am a joker and I love to laugh and make you laugh too. I am a music fan and I love going to live gigs. Who are your favorite musicians? I ha...
  • Hey, any SteamPunkers out there in Santa Barbara?... Hi, I'm Brad T. from Santa Barbara born and raised. I love everything SteamPunk and am searching for a local woman who appreciates the romanticism of the late Victorian era. I'm 30 years old, love sci-fi, SteamPunk, conventions and events, travel and work. I have a dynamite job working with younger ...
  • January 21st, 2026
  • Chill Dude Needs His BBW Queen... Hi ladies I'm Mike from here in Santa Barbara, age 30, 6'0, 190 pounds, Italian, French, Norwegian mix, tatted, well endowed, muscular, journeyman plumber, who loves lots of curves and passion in his woman. I don't meet many women in my line of work and bar pickups are not usually the right way to f...
  • Biker Looking for His Wild Child... Any biker chicks out there who love to ride? Are you more old school into rock, partying, having good times and traveling? If so, then take a look at my profile page and if you like what you see then I want to hear from you. A simple Hi could get this whole train a rollin'. If you live in or near th...
  • Age 47 Regular Guy with a Lot to Offer!! Man Seeking Woman for Dates in Santa Barbara Hey, Richard here. I just want to say hi to you and hope you might check out my profile and see if you want to go out for a date. I am just a regular guy looking for a regular gal. I've been single too long. I keep busy and have a great life but It's tim...